BH, Had I remained alone, I would have had a hard time but not impossible and really quite good in terms of having DD. We had a good life before I met New Guy H but it is better with NGH.
I wouldn't say I don't care at all what happens to X but neither do I think about it. I am busy with my own life and challenges.
While things are past, that does not mean that what happened did not make a deep scar. I still find myself angry but mostly I don't think about X much.
Some perspective for people in the hard part right now....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D