BH, Had I remained alone, I would have had a hard time but not impossible and really quite good in terms of having DD. We had a good life before I met New Guy H but it is better with NGH.

I wouldn't say I don't care at all what happens to X but neither do I think about it. I am busy with my own life and challenges.

While things are past, that does not mean that what happened did not make a deep scar. I still find myself angry but mostly I don't think about X much.

Some perspective for people in the hard part right now....


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D