I just feel that physical is just biological. Don't get me wrong. I don't want that image in my head either. It just seems the EA is more betrayal of trust then the physical.
I was able to "hear" my WW's conversation with OM right after I discovered her secret plot to file for D while she gaslighted me. That burned a hole into my memory of her, the things she said about me and my family. I think that is the reason why DB tells you NOT to snoop on your WS. It was very painful to hear her talking to OM about me. I still have that audio image burned into my head, hurts even as I type this two months later.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
