Well I guess for the most part I would say that I have been LRT and I think I have been following the rules pretty closely. I don't have any contact with her unless about logistics around kids, haven't initiated any R talks in weeks, GAL'ing with friends old and new 1-3x a week, 180's are still something I can do better with dedicating myself to.
I guess my wanting to try something new is due to just seeing her continue on her exit path. I need to accept and deal with the fact that it is going to get worse before it would even be possible to get better and I have no control over the choices she is making. She is a long way from hitting bottom. She is still living with family, with no job or responsibilities playing her game all day and nothing but her fantasy life ahead of her (own place, dream job etc. in future once D).
I think the most immediate issue I need to address is the below in regards to her request as this does require some form of action from me.
She is filing out papers to go file. She claims to need some financial information which I believe is related to support. I have already told her D is not what I want and I will not be a part of this, but that I cannot control what she chooses to do. Is it facilitating to give her this info or is it pointless to drag my feet from a DB point of view?
--Do I give her this info and not try to control the situation or do I tell her I will not assist and that she can figure it out on her own?
Inaction is something I am good at...lol, although I do tend to overthink things. To be honest this question or similar only pop up when she see's me GAL'ing (dressed up in new clothes dropping kids off to go see friends etc.) or executing my 180's (asserted myself about decisions with kids I previously posted and not just letting her make the decision as I had in the past).
