Don't obsess over OM, but keep your eyes and ears open. Look for signs so you know what's going on. You don't want to show up at a gunfight with knives!


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016