Don't obsess over OM, but keep your eyes and ears open. Look for signs so you know what's going on. You don't want to show up at a gunfight with knives!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016