Yeah, I feel it. And even though I would be willing to forgive her for cheating, I think. I need to know. I have a tampon that she took off last night, no it's not bloody. I found a lab online that does semen tests and will mail it there when I save up the money. I know it's a new low for me. I thought that I was doing good with the GAL and detaching, but I guess I'm not. I know I don't have a choice but to let go, I just hate being lied to.
That's a lot of work (and messy too)! Why don't you just get a hold of her cell phone and look? Or go to the gym one day if you ahve suspicions?
I believe DB really frowns on snooping but I think ascertaining whether you have a WAW or WW is vitally important to your approach. For me, my WW tried to pretend she was a WAW but I knew that she was WW. Your approach has to be very different for a WW, as per Sandi's thread also. It's true you can't change her but if your W is a WW, you cannot believe most of the things she says.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
