Great advice, Sandi. You nailed it on the head. All of us LBH's are always looking for the silver bullet to kill the werewolf OM. But it doesn't exist. We've all gone through this stage in the beginning, starting with pleading, groveling, etc. None of that works, otherwise we wouldn't be here to start with. I see the learning on this forum is from other posters' incremental progress and approaches, not a specific move or tactic to "straighten out" your WW.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
