Getting the book right now will be kind of difficult. Because for right now we are still sharing a bank account and seeing money come out for a "Divorce Busting" book may raise a few questions.
Shouldn't be a problem, order from Amazon like me, it just shows up on your statement as Amazon. Better yet, go to a bookstore and buy it, no trace there!
The book is important in that it gives you DB in a coherent manner. Reading the concepts on this website is difficult at best, because there are many different strategies presented between Detaching and Going Dark. The book lays them out in a clearer fashion.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016