thanks accuray, that's what I'd interpreted "detaching" as, just looking for ocnfirmation. Already I feel better about my sitch, though that may be because I'm just starting a new thing again. The difference is I know this one will help me regardless of the outcome!
Anyone else able to offer advice re counselling question - best approach to take in counselling - brutally honest? Validating? tough love? detached (not bothered about outcome)? Have an upcoming session and want to make sure it is productive if possible.
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
