[broke]

Thanks, daybyday, it's moment to moment isn't it?! I appreciate your kind words. I am pretty encouraging to everyone else but hardest on myself. Gotta work on that, too.

I have a questions those of you going to IC:

I started IC back in July when the bomb dropped. Very nice woman, religious, believes her client is the marriage. She had vested interest in me and saving my M, but only listened never really gave feedback. So, two months ago, I switched to another IC. This one gives some feedback but not really how to move forward. More observations than suggestions I guess. But she's very clinical. I don't feel like she really cares about my particular sitch. Just wants to move to next appt. I don't leave feeling helped.

This is first time I've been in counseling and I'm not sure what to expect but I was hoping to have someone who cared, listened to me, told me when I was wrong and helped me move forward. Or at least tell me if I'm doing the right things to eventually reach acceptance.

Am I not understanding how IC should work? Should I move on again? Or just quit. I'm thinking about taking a break. I'm spending money on something that isn't really helping which seems silly. Thanks for the feedback!