I get everyone's opinion of the sNo, not a train wreck, but a comedy. I do think he's doing everything he possible can (PA behavior) to sabotage her staying here or marrying her.

I think I'm going to make a triple batch of popcorn. We are all going to need it to get thru this show.
ituation and can identify with all of the suggestions. The biggest thing for me about this is that I believe my W is lying about it for some reason. Most likely just to see me squirm. It shows I care about another man touching her and no doubt she is enjoying it. What she doesn't understand is that it's more about the disrespect from him towards us (the guys is supposed to be our friend), the disrespect my W did by not addressing it right there and then (but I understand she may not have know what to do) and now the distrust she is creating by saying she is unaware that it happened when I'm quite sure she was fully aware of it. I feel the same way, you would know if someone had their hand on your ass and patting it! Her response was all over the place "didn't notice he did it. Or if I did I forgot. I didn’t think anything of it…I forgot. I don’t remember that in particular". The statements she made are in quotes since I recorded the conversation. It was my first time I've ever done this but I was sure she would not give me a straight answer. And after when I told her what she said above, she denied saying it. Told her I wrote it down as she said it. But, I have not told her that I recorded the conversation. She will certainly turn the focus onto me recording the conversation than the issue at hand. I just wanted the recording so I could listen back and see if I was over reacting. I'm glad I did as I could hear her trying to come up with an explanation on the fly that contradicted each statement. I have my first one on one with the new MC tonight and will discuss this with her to get her take on it all and let her hear the recording if she likes. There is no reason to lie to me about it so if she is it really makes me wonder what the hell she is trying to do. The only thing we have done consistently until know (at least I thought) is at least be honest with each other. If the trust is gone it's going to make it that much more difficult for us to recover our R and M.