Still absorbing your post Maximus. Thank you for your thoughts. I did have a Q for one of your points.
7) You intend to love her in sickness and in health but want to facilitate or get a D?
She is filing out papers to go file. She claims to need some financial information which I believe is related to support. I have already told her D is not what I want and I will not be a part of this, but that I cannot control what she chooses to do. Is it facilitating to give her this info or is it pointless to drag my feet from a DB point of view?
--Do I give her this info and not try to control the situation or do I tell her I will not assist and that she can figure it out on her own?
I feel like ton's of people get blindsided with D papers and probably don't give this info up before. I am conflicted in this. L's say it won't hurt me if I give it to her from a legal point of view.
