Inevitable always happens

[keefa]

Thanks CWOL, Adjusted my sig too. oops.
Its been a month since she moved out. It has been weird to say the least. The manner in which she did it was underhand, deceitful, purposely hurtful and quite brutal.
I kinda liken the feeling i have now to the very rare times in the past where the boys and my then wife had gone out to say a party and they didn't arrive home at the time I thought they would, house to myself, not ever being concerned as such as boys leaving parties always takes time finding shoes etc
but that period of quiet when it was approaching when they should be home is how it feels now and how its felt this last month, a funny sort of expecting feeling, to hear her car come up the drive and the door to bang open like only kids can do.
The ugliness is starting to fade a little for me, I am pretty sure stbx had put in max effort to shield herself from me telling her friends etc about her affair. She has no family, and the friends she has are fairly new i.e since school started. They are mostly gossip hunters and all of course experts in relationships. She also wanted (and tried without my knowledge) to put the house up for sale to release the cash immediately. My L has said 'well, we'll just see about that' and this has also caused her to become uglier. I'm no longer bothered and don't really care what she says or does. I don't really worry if her superficial friends know the truth or not. I'm too busy GAL :o)