I'm going to be approaching another tough date on the calendar - the 13th of this month. It will the 35th anniversary of our first date.

I am so tempted to send a card - half as a goodbye. Honestly, I'm not even sure the W is going to remember. And if she does - so what?

Then St. Patrick's Day - I would always fix Corned Beef and Cabbage. Sigh.

I dunno. I guess I can still hold out some hope but I think that drained out of me a few weeks ago. This last round with the identity theft really felt like she was kicking a dead horse. I'm mad, but not as mad as I would normally be - and it's mostly mad because of the principle of the thing.

I'm really wondering about bringing it up with her Parents - who I've not seen for some time. I'd almost rather have a relationship with them and none with the W at this point. I'm sure she's been working on poisoning them during the time I've not seen them - but this would shock them.

At least maybe they could suggest she get some therapy. Unless of course somebody like Sandi said this is normal behavior - in which case I throw my hands up!


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)