Keefa,
Hang in there, you will pull through. You are a few weeks ahead of me in the WW curve, be strong! I've started to experience a lot of the ugliness you faced already.

PS: The timeline in your sig confuses me a bit, you're using European date convention right? Do you mean: W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16

Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016