IMHO, I think it is good that she is confused. It gives me hope for you and your W. I hope the coaching helps - I would definitely ask how to handle the kissing and "I love you", how detaching would work with that. Seems like a fine line.
When I asked my H why he was still kissing me goodbye, he said he was just being polite….of course, that was before he moved out and filed. But, I told him not to bother anymore.
I hope you get some direction tonight with the coaching! Keep us posted!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16