Thanks all. I'm doing my first phone coaching session tonight. I'm interested to see how it will go. The W has been more vocal with me still saying I love you and kissing me when she leaves the house. I'm holding steady detaching myself. I think she is starting to take notice. However she did mention to me on Monday night that she doesn't think she could ever have sex with me again because she doesn't feel a connection. But then gives me a kiss and says she loves me when she leaves for work. (She works nights). I thinks she's really confused with what she wants.