Feeling he's in MLC, but in D process

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Like it..Not standing still

I like all the questions you ask yourself

I think most MLCers have moments of clarity
they miss the house, their stuff, the TV, the family

Maybe it briefly passes thru their thoughts that they are giving up a lot of stuff
they will newer admit it

and in the end many of them do opt to leave a ll the stuff they worked for- for a fantasy life that will never be created

some start to realize it later after their dream life turns to dust

one of my best friends who also went thru this is now best friends with her XH
He is actively pursuing her for the last 6 months
she doesn't want him back
he like so many others mlcers he had so much lost it-and has nothing at this point and is working temp jobs

You on the other hand sound like as you move forward your fantasy life will be created from hard work and perseverance