She just wants space and then we can work on a frienship?
I think that this is the key phrase here...she needs space. She is telling you right out what her need is and this is something 5hat you need to learn how to do.
This is where you learn how to live YOUR life, detach from her railroad and go your own way. If you dont want a divorce, fine don't file...but you cannot stop her if that is what she wants in her head.
You need to really start to focus on the pwrson youbwant to become and take thiae steps forward to start...one step is how every single journey starts.
Is your gal all it can be, how have you been doing with making new friends reconnecting woth old ones. How have you been with focusing on behaviours within yourself thst you need to change. How have you been treating yourself? How about your goals.
^^^^THIS is the heart of DB and what you should be focusing on right now.
Yes place to live to suit your needs is immediate concern, but her friendship should not be. She needs her space, if you love her as i imagine you do...that is precisely what you should do...
This is not easy...there are few days go by i dont thinknabout what i could be doing better to make this relationship stronger / more passionate / more intimate...but that wont work, she cannot handle that with me right now and if i pusg she will only withdraw more. This has to evolve naturally and it will take way more time than we think it will.
We are rooting for you and i hope to see some more goals and gal plans for you very soon. Remember...one step is all it takes to start moving.
