Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

hey,

W was texting me a lot yesterday at work, I try and wait till lunch now or the end of the day to reply. It was all bout what is going on, houses, asking how my house is going and showings after work, and she wanted us to pick up the kids together then go to get groceries and eat out. I was surprised as we haven't don that in a while, at least not since the kids know were are now separating. I didn't turn it down.

We didn't end up picking up the kids together as there was a showing, so I took the dog out and walked to the kids school and picked them up. Kids were a handful. S4 has been physical to other students today as his teacher told me. The school now knows we are S. and we asked for feedback if they see and trouble with the kids.

I noticed that W was getting frustrated with the kids, and she was calling them disgusting for how they were acting and dirty and gross, because they had dirty hands. All this negative directed right at them, and not there behavior.

I don't know how to handle it. I think I need to speak to her about it, its not helping at all calling them those names like that. And putting them down personally like that.

I don't have all information for the S papers and she is telling me that her Lawyer will just send it to my lawyer and then I can change it with the new info.

When did she get like that, at first she didn't want lawyers involved now her lawyer is dictating how things need to go. W needs to tell her L how it is and what W wants. I am working on it and it takes time to get stuff together.

Oh and before I left with the dog, the dog was playfully biting her and she is saying I am taking the dog and that it can be a house of boys (dog is a boy) and we can do all the gross stuff that guys do as much as we want and she doesn't have to see it.

I don't know if she was being playful with that but I just agreed and said me and the kids will have so much fun in our guy house.