In my experience yes. I had no idea about OM. Yes she was texting a lot but it was going on for months before I had any clue. Then when I did find out she acted so hurt that I believed her. Of course that was just a gnawing feeling and my heart knew the truth.

Look at my thread there is no low a WW will not go to. Read Sandi's reflection, the WW could careless about you (and in my case the kids too), so to look you in the eye piece of cake, smile no problem, kiss your kids without a doubt she is not cheating on them.

I am sorry to be blunt but I think I am telling you something you already know in your gut.

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16