I just have to stand back in bewilderment as WAW makes her plans to move. Everything else just goes by the wayside. It's too surreal. No fights or blowups. Just business as usual.

It's almost as if doing this were on her bucket list. She has to be a troubled sort.I feel sorry for her. I hope that she decides to want to try to work on M before I decide that I am done with her.

I have done pretty well lately with DB. Not pursuing or R talk. Leaving conversations first etc. She is having to rely on her parents for money if something happens with her lease.

We have all accepted our parts in all of our situations so I AM improving myself trying to correct bad habits, listen more than talking. She has become the talker with no listening.
It's all about HER day etc. Just venting my frustration with it all.


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016