Our stories, again, are striking similar. My W is also in the fitness field and was involved with someone at work. She's also been drinking heavily lately, and everything she's done to keep herself in shape is going out the window. (Eating like crap, not working out, etc..). Yesterday she called out sick and stayed in bed all day.
Is your W still involved with OM? Mine swears it is done and VAR proves it. She repeatedly says she's disgusted by the way he took advantage of her when she was weak.
My W's income is 1/4 mine, so she has nowhere to go. My kids are older but still living with me and they're self sufficient.
It felt good to detach yesterday. It felt good to see her suffering, after her being this head strong woman for so many years.
I'm just worried that detaching will push her back into OM.
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
