It finally hit me this morning. Why would I possibly move back out. I just moved out for 4 weeks and came back because I felt bad. If my wife wants to move out and take the kids, that's on her. She should know that taking them out of there home is a bad idea, but it will be her bad idea not mine.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015