Hi melweb, just catching up on your thread.
Originally Posted By: melweb
I was accused of not letting him have friends, I was pressuring, and we needed to go slow. He mentioned these women "friends" once or twice and that he would not give them up.
OMG, I was accused of the same – not letting H to have female friends, which there were quite a few… And yes, he would not give them up… I was accused of being jealous and controlling…

MrBond, I don’t get your point? “Sometimes they leave because they really were unhappy with the M.” I don’t get it… Are you saying that melweb’s H is not in MLC? After he told her that he was “done”, but still coming home and giving her hugs and kisses and behaving like nothing happened? I might agree with you questioning “emotionally immature” comments, but melweb’s H is clearly in a very confused state.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state