Now, the real work begins...Part III

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Thanks Thornton, Red and Vanilla for checking in! It always feels better to get the support I need here on the forum!

V- I am so glad you had fun with your sister! Nothing beats unconditional love from your family or good friends.

Red - you are 100% right - have to continue to detach and focus on those kiddos (truly the best blessing we have right now)

I was very lucky that a friend joined me for a walk and dinner at the last minute tonight. The best part is she is a friend I met at divorce care and she is four years ahead of me in this horrid process. Her H cheated, married the OW and moved away. And, she is doing great! She is single but happy and not wiling to settle for less than she deserves. It is always great to see her and get her perspective on things.