MrBond - Thanks for your comment. I guess I don't understand how that statement is controlling. It appears I have a long way to go.

What should one do then to overcome this? I ask you and others sincerely.

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017