Yeah my dad and I have always been super close (my mom was not a very good mother). But when he started dating his current significant other, he put her desires above me and I was not okay with that. I'm messy, she's a neat freak. We all got a house together right before I went to college. When I came home for christmas break (which is a month), it was rough. I was told I wasn't allowed to live there anymore. I haven't been in my dad's house since.
With regards to H. I'm not sure I can do this. I'm not sure the man I love is in there anymore or if he ever was.
From The Accidental Tourist: it isn't how much you love someone but who you are when you're with them. He's chosen to be with someone who makes him, quite frankly, a bad person.
I think it was Thornton who said the opposite of love was indifference. He didn't care how this would affect me. Kind of the definition of indifference.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward