That is such a horrible story Sparkls. You have such a painful history and now all this, I feel really bad for you. We will all be here for you. If you want to know which decision shows more strength ask yourself which is easier for you, to call him out on it or to leave it alone. For people like us Sparkles the most difficult decision is always inaction because we are action oriented people. Maybe that is what our WS dislike about us because we cannot just sit back and not do anything. Just think long and hard before you decide to say anything. We can always speak but we can never take back what we say.

BTW I am so glad to hear your dad is stepping up and being there for you. If nothing else maybe this will strengthen your relationship with your father.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16