So sorry you are in this situation Tyler,

I am new here and wish I was as wise as some of the members that post here and could tell you the best way to do things but I'm not. All I can say is i am in a very similar situation (I'm 30 and my wife 25 just walked out).
I have taken away a lot from reading others posts and has helped me take a totally different approach than I would have if I didn't come here.

It is a very tough time for you but it sounds like you a getting further along the road of moving on if the thoughts of getting D started are in your current thinking.

I hope you start to feel better soon. I know it's life changing and I'm definitely not the same person I was 2 months ago.
Stay strong Tyler


ME- 31 W-25
T-5 M-3
D2
ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16
W seeing someone else - JUL16