Wow I'm sorry to hear that brother I think it's all about context and so my wife says that said recently that everything started going bad about 4 years ago when she was pregnant with our youngest son and she continue to be in the marriage and try to work at it and really it wasn't until this January I'm sorry January 15th that she decided to walk away and start tanning again and start going to the gym to make herself feel better she didn't want to separate from me until she thought that I was having an affair and then she moved to her moms house for a day she was anxious to the point where she needed medication she stalks me at my job she would wait in the parking lot she would look at my phone and she was very very angry at one point slapping me. I don't think an OM precipitated this. I think that the thought of an A on my part drove her to this point and when she looked back to try and see if it was worth saving the marriage, she decided that it wasn't because we had been so far apart for so long that she fell out of love.
