Melo, we all did. I have a stack of cards my WW gave me over the years. Just last year for Father's Day, she wrote what a great dad and husband I was for her and our son. Now she claims she's been out of love for the past two years. Huh? Yet she contacted OM 9 years ago at least.

I think the dynamics around a WW are very different from WAW. You need to figure out which one is your wife.

Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016