The wedding is over thank god. I've been good with no contact. Talked to him a little today in the phone about the boys. For the first time I didn't bring up R talk or OW. I plan on keeping it up!! Someday he'll realize he made a mistake or maybe not.


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since