Quick layout of my sitch

Was with W for 5 years. Married for 1 1/2. We have 2 children together and she was an amazing mother to the 2 children from my previous marriage.

She came to me late October and said she was unhappy. She was leaving and I did excessive pursuing trying to make everything right. It didn't help.

A few weeks later I found evidence from snooping that she was having a EA at least and I still have no evidence of PA not that I want any.

She has been moved out of the house for almost 2 months and there is no foreseeable chance of R.

Today I contacted my lawyer about proceeding with D. And as of right now I see no reason not to get it started.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.