"She felt that I tried to control her whenever we disagreed. Which is not how I saw it. "

Do you understand how just that statement alone is controlling on your part?

Going back a bit to the guy she met at the meeting that you said she had an EA with. What did they text to each other?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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