Hey Rouky hang in there. First thing is for you to agree to nothing with your husband without consulting an attorney. I know how final it feels once you make that step but you have to protect yourself. You are already aware that your husband does not have your best interest at heart so count on him trying to get a divorce settlement that is favorable to him. And don't fall into the trap of accepting whatever he offers hoping that it will encourage him to take you back. If he ever comes to his senses it will have nothing to do with your having asked for a fair settlement.

Secondly put to bed the thoughts of going forward with your life without a partner. You are going to find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. You have too much to offer for anything other than that to happen. There are more than a few of us decent guys out here and we are looking for someone exactly like you.

We are going to survive this Rouky. We just have to keep our seat belt on until the plane stops moving. Better things are coming and we must be patient. We also have to be smart. Hard to do in this circumstance but soldier on we must. I think of you every day and pray that things will get better for you soon!


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.