"It's hard to ignore something like this - to me, it's not ok and is completely inappropriate and needed to be addressed."

She did but you didn't seem to like her answer. That's you being controlling.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER