As a 180,I am looking into buying a house, but since my credit score isn't high enough, having her and my Mom be on the mortgage, with the deal being to refinance in a year and get my Mom off of the mortgage. I'm not doing it in hopes that she Will come running into my arms thanking me, but because rent is really expensive here compared to paying a mortgage.
Don't buy anything yet until you fix (or leave) your marriage. A friend of mine made that mistake. He bought a house to make his wife happy. His wife got a D right after escrow closed, he ended up paying mortgage on the house for many years while his XW lived there with the OM, and he was barred from that house himself! Don't make that mistake!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
