Sunny - I think you're right, I shouldn't act any differently, and I won't, it just caught me so by surprise I'm still spinning.
Maybell - If he did want to R, yes I think I would consider it. My friends and family would recoil in horror, and I don't know how the kids would react as they witnessed my complete devastation when he left.
Sotto - I don't want to be OW to OW, but I have to admit a part of me is pleased it happened as now he's kind of cheated on her with me. I know it's mean and two wrongs don't make a right, but she got involved with him knowing his wife and kids needed him.
I have seen him since it happened as he offered to do a job in the house for me which he noticed was needing done. He was very kind and pleasant, a tiny bit flirty, but there was no hugs or kisses this time.
If I'm honest I don't think he would ever consider coming back. I think he's happy and content with OW and his new life in his beautiful apartment in fairy land. The embrace and kiss may just have been some sort of goodbye, a bittersweet ending. And although I still love him and think about him far too much than I should, I still think its a nice memory to have.
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Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014
