IMHO, a woman doesn't bounce back & forth between WAW and WW. After reading more about her actions, I think she may be involved in an EA. Do not confront her yet. If you do, she will become more secretive and withdrawn. Confrontation, in itself, does not solve anything. If anything, it pushes her to announce she wants a D.
Btw, please don't purchase something big while the M is so unstable.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
