Hi Tim,
all I did was submit a "don't change" order with the provider. The L didn't even want to go there, and wants to keep all of her crazy ramblings out of court - in fact avoid court if possible.

But it's so weird that she would rather go in and steal this stuff rather than allow me to transfer it. Is it sullied if she gets it that way?

I suppose I could contact a criminal attorney if I wanted, but it's kind of a gray area. Regardless, it really ticks me off she would do this - and cost me all the time I spent having to change my user name, PIN, password, email address - and change all the passwords on all my email.

It dawned on me that she's accessing my email, and that's how she got into the provider account. They obviously got into my side of the PC they didn't have the administrative password to, and have been reading my emails. They got the provider emails and that gave them enough info to go in and change my account - by using the "see my account" links.

Anyway, I'm going to blow it off - what happens happens. At this point I have zero hope for a R, this woman is too twisted with hate - I no longer recognize her.

You're totally right - we need to do what's right for ourselves and everybody else, and leave the trash in the gutter. Someone else can sweep it up.

Last edited by Cadet; 03/08/16 12:28 PM.

Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)