It's hard to know what they are really thinking and what the motivations are for all the contact. I do think it's because they can't let go. I especially like what Sandi said about leaving her with positive feelings about you. When the A with the OM starts to sour, and it will, she'll remember the good times with you. Guaranteed. That doesn't mean she'll come back just yet, but it will stick with her.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat