After reading some things here, I can't believe how much my story mirrors LiM's. Amazing. Especially about the exposing part, that if this got out, I fear my wife would be extremely suicidal. If her church group, athletic club, boss, family and all those found out, she would be absolutely devastated. If I tell the OM's W, the OM has a history of PTSD from work and who knows what he would do.
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R