My first post - please be nice.

[broke]

For me the book was very helpful. I wouldn't say anything to her about last night - that is forcing more talk about your R and it could end up being a very long conversation that you don't want to have. Learn from last night, make sure to read everything and start fresh DB'ing.

I didn't help my H move out. IMHO I think it is their decision to move, so they should do it. But, I am only a month into DB'ing, so I hope some others weigh in on that.