I know this because it's happened to me first hand.
W told me she was DONE, that her feelings never change. I got her back!
Believe NOTHING they say and HALF of what they do.
By you carrying your self with dignity, class, and maturity, you are keeping the door open for reconciliation.
He WILL notice this. But it might be a little while for his fog to clear.
I've made the decision for myself that if W wants to leave me, so be it. However, I will do everything in my power to make her regret it. I will handle myseld with dignity and grace.
I will not react. I will not sink to her level. She can implode all she wants, I will rise above.
And when the dust settles, I will still be there standing firm and with my head held high. This is when she will question herself. This is when she might say "what have I done?". And that's when she will become the LBS.
The same thing happened with my ex-wife. We been divorced for 10 years and I could have her back with a simple phone call. And that, my friend, is so empowering.
The universe has a way of balancing the power in things. Right now, he has the upper hand. He cares less than you do. But you will perservere and become the strong one. The power will shift. Trust the process.
It's a marathon, not a sprint. Slow and steady wins the race.
