Looking for a Spark in the dark 3

[broke]

I agree with Thornton. My post above was my knee-jerk reaction. Getting reimbursed for those games and half the money in your account will just create lots of conflict and justify his reasons for leaving. When my H said he wanted a divorce, I opened up my own checking account, got a safety deposit box, removed his name from my 2 credit cards and got a P.O. Box. He was furious. It definitely did not help our situation. I felt like I was protecting myself and he thought I jumped the gun….I pushed us further off the cliff in his mind. So, to summarize, leave it, he seems to want to create something. Maybe he will reach out and let you know he did it once you don't…..be prepared if he does.