My first post - please be nice.

[collin]

Getting the book right now will be kind of difficult. Because for right now we are still sharing a bank account and seeing money come out for a "Divorce Busting" book may raise a few questions.

I just really don't know how I am supposed to detach while living in the same house for now. This weekend she's going to stay with her grandmother, so I'll be able to actually sit down and read through the info posted about 180's and goals.

Would it even benefit me at all to email/text her and say something like, "Look, sorry about last night. Just right now is a very emotional time for me and I will do a better job at respecting your decision?" I will just keep it short and succinct.

One more question that came out of last night. As the role of the LBH, what is expected of us in their departure? I mean, surely I'm mot expected to help her pack up and move out? That just sounds like backwards logic.