I look around at all the hurt people are experiencing in these threads and we are all feeling it, which is heartbreaking. However the amount of support and positive thinking, the well wishes and suggestions to get through it all is truly great.

I don't offer a lot of advice here, there is many people here that are much better suited to helping everyone in many different aspects. A lot of the times anything I think of saying or advising is quickly done by another person and it makes me smile

I find it much harder to live by ones advice than give it here, as every situation is different, advice for someone else may not work for you at that moment. Or you have been through what someone else is going through and you want to guide them down the path that offers the least resistance and pain. My point is none of us know exactly what to do or there would only be one post stating do this them this and your done. But the collaboration of minds we have here is every bit as good.

If you are new here listen, read the sticky threads, read as many threads as you can, so many of the situations have very similar things happening on different days and the advice is all there. Keep posting. Keep reading. Am keep supporting each other.

Whenever you feel down and alone remember there is lots of people here that, even though they don't "know" you, care for you and want what is best for you. Deep down we know what is best for oursleves, we question it sometimes, but we know what's best and that is what DB is about. What is best for you. Keep growing.

You are all amazing people that even when you are living with pain and confusion, you take the time to make sure other people here are doing well and that shows the true character of who everyone is at their core. The type of people, though I don't know you personally, consider friends.

The road is long and hard, who's to tell you that you can't enjoy it for the experience it gives us? And having good friends along on the same trip makes it a little easier too.


The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.