Too Much Time Is Passing By

[broke]

Hope,

I have been at this for 8 months, too, and I am not healed. I read somewhere that it can take 2-5 year to be truly healed. Of course, we are told it gets easier with time, but we are still right in the middle of it, so it doesn't seem like it will ever get any better.

Keeping a positive mental attitude takes work, too. All of this takes work - detaching, 180's and GAL'ing. It isn't easy, but I think it is our only option to keep us moving in the right direction. You are having a bump in the road - it is to be expected.

And, while it seems like H flipped a switch and is over you, I am sure that isn't the case. I truly believe that WAS are just trying to fill their emptiness up with all the wrong things. You are trying to improve yourself and fill yourself up with all the right things, which is why this takes a long time and it is painful. But, you will be prepared for your next relationship with or without H.

You seemed like you had a good weekend. I am hopeful that you will have a better day tomorrow. You can do this Hope - I know you can. One step at a time.