If I had no children, I would have left this women a long time ago. But I have 3 youn children with her, and they are innocent bystanders. Yes, I could be selfish and go looking for love elsewhere, but I love them, and I want them to have as normal of a life as possible. Divorce would be hard on them emotionally as well as financially. So for as long as I can stick it out, I will stay married to the great "Fridgid" one. Hey, maybe I will find some solution that warms her up a little bit.