Where do we go from here Part 2

[broke]

I think many of us feel the same way about our WAS - them not being who we married or who we thought they were. But, I really have to say that, while my H drives me crazy, I am glad we can productively coparent the kids. From one mother to another, I just don't understand where all her anger is coming from. I think she's as messed up in the head as my H - trying to fill their emptiness up in all the wrong places. But, her kids seems to be smack dab in the middle of her anger and, really, shouldn't they be the gifts in all this drama? I know my kids are really the only thing that kept me sane and "trying to stay on the high road" this whole time. It is really a shame that they have so much to deal with right now.

And, I am so glad you have a plan for wrestling. I figured it was the one place he felt better and you are there, too. That predetermined time with you would be taken away if you pulled him from the sport….